Cafes are the most comfortable spiritual harbor for lonely patients.

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Just like when things go to extremes, when autism progresses to a certain extent, there is a reaction force that wants to get close to the crowd and feel the human temperature, but the force must not be too strong, otherwise deep-sea fish are suddenly pulled out of the sea level from the bottom of the sea.

At this time, the cafe is the best place to absorb the nutrients of popularity, and a lot of conversations take place here. All you have to do is sit quietly, smile thoughtfully from time to time, and let small pieces of the stranger's life at the next table fall like rain in front of the window. Bored, yawn and bow your head to the book, interesting and open your ears but listen quietly.

After an hour of participation with strangers, you are able to stay out of it without having to offend yourself with others or vice versa, and the gap can also train your reasoning skills, guessing the context of events from vague conversations and guessing relationships with people, with a bit of Sherlock Holmes guessing.

The distance of a table, a little close but not too close, the time of a cup of coffee, like or dislike, even if it comes and goes quickly. Topics with high practical value, such as stock market cards, insurance common sense, and long-term photo topics, can make small gains. There are seemingly harmonious but intriguing mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, sweet little couple interaction, and many unexpected reality shows in small theatres, which are not dramatic enough, so make up with imagination.

Occasionally looking up, from the small Xi Xiao anger of the fine close-up, the pull-out camera turned to focus on the noise, to listen to the solo of everyone spitting out every word and cadence, and to the chorus of everyone's sentences one after another. there is also the sound of coffee rushing from the machine, the sound of beans being ground and crushed, the greeting of the shop assistant, the sound of background jazz, high and low layer upon layer. Merge into a huge buzzing sound, so trivial, so daily.

As a result, the lonely patients were able to get up and leave.

Source: Liberty Times