Chinese Woman Confronted by Starbucks Manager in Queens

It’s the kind of moment every customer dreads: you’re just trying to order your drink, but the person behind the counter is yelling at you to leave. For Ruby Chen, a Chinese-American woman visiting a New York City Starbucks, that’s exactly what happened — and the entire confrontation was caught on camera.

The short answer? A Queens Starbucks manager, later identified as Melissa, aggressively told Ruby Chen to “get out” of the store, even though Chen had done nothing wrong. She was buying a Frappuccino and a cookie straw, and was later offered $100 in compensation after Melissa was fired.

The Incident at Queens Starbucks

Last Tuesday, Ruby Chen visited a Starbucks location in Queens, New York. She was using the Starbucks app to collect rewards points when she says she didn’t hear the manager, Melissa, speaking to her. According to Chen, she politely asked Melissa to repeat herself, saying, “Sorry, I can’t hear you, but you don’t have to yell.”

That’s when Melissa allegedly lost her temper. In a now-viral video posted to Facebook, Melissa is heard shouting, “You will not get service here. Bye, bye, bye!” and motioning for Chen to leave. When Chen asked to speak with the manager — who was in fact herself — Melissa screamed back, “You’re talking to the manager. Get out!”

What Sparked the Altercation?

Chen says she was simply opening the Starbucks mobile app to access her rewards when the conflict began. She never raised her voice, and claims she has no idea why Melissa became so aggressive. “I still don’t know what I did to upset her,” Chen said.

Melissa also accused Chen of attempting to steal a cookie straw and demanded that the police be called. Chen, who had already been trying to pay, says Melissa even took the payment scanner away.

Outcome and Responses

The footage quickly spread online, prompting public outcry. By Saturday, Starbucks announced that Melissa had been terminated. The company also issued an apology to Chen and provided her with a $100 gift card as compensation.

However, Melissa has since claimed that she was the one who resigned, not that she was fired. She also stated that Chen was the one who insulted her first.

What This Tells Us About Customer Service — And Race

This incident has sparked wider conversations about racial bias and customer treatment, particularly in customer-facing roles. Many commentators noted how unsettling it is to be aggressively spoken to in a public space — especially a place meant for relaxation like a coffee shop.

“You wouldn’t shout at someone on the subway just because they were speaking another language,” one commenter wrote. “Why is it suddenly okay inside a Starbucks?”

Frequently Asked Questions

Who is Ruby Chen, and what happened to her at Starbucks?

Ruby Chen is a Chinese-American woman who visited a Starbucks in Queens, New York. She was trying to use the Starbucks app and buy a Frappuccino and a cookie straw when the store manager, Melissa, began shouting at her to leave. Chen did nothing wrong and was later compensated with a $100 gift card.

Why did the Starbucks manager yell at Ruby Chen?

According to Chen, she didn’t hear the manager speaking and asked her to repeat herself calmly. The manager, Melissa, then began yelling, telling Chen she couldn’t be served and had to leave. Melissa also accused Chen of stealing and called the police, though no arrest was made.

Was the Starbucks manager fired?

Yes. After the video of the altercation was uploaded to Facebook, Starbucks terminated Melissa’s employment on Saturday. The company also apologised to Chen.

Did the manager claim she resigned instead of being fired?

Yes. Melissa has stated that she resigned, not that she was fired. She also claimed that Chen insulted her first, though there is no evidence of this in the video.

What did Starbucks do to make it right with the customer?

Starbucks gave Ruby Chen a $100 gift card as compensation following the incident. The company publicly apologised for the manager’s behaviour.

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