The People You Drink Coffee With Matter Most

You’re out for dim sum with friends, but no one else wants coffee. One orders tea, another water, and the third reluctantly takes a coffee — which might just be a masked milk tea. You’re left sipping alone, wondering why coffee moments with others feel so rare, or why they matter so much when they happen.

The best coffee experiences aren’t about the beans or the brew method — they’re about who’s sitting across from you. A shared cup can turn a simple meal into a lasting memory, especially when it’s with someone who really gets it.

Coffee with a Poet in Hong Kong

Years ago, visiting Hong Kong as a student, I met the poet Huang Canran for the first time. We had planned a hike on Lantau Island, and despite being the oldest in the group, Huang was the most energetic — often speeding ahead on the trail, then turning back to wave enthusiastically. Later, we rented bikes, and once again, he pedaled far ahead.

That evening, we ate at a seaside seafood restaurant in Mui Wo. Before ordering food, Huang called over the waitress and said, “Bring the coffee, quickly.” While the others declined, I joined him — and I’m glad I did.

The coffee arrived in a glass mug printed with a beer logo, nothing fancy. But the flavor? Deep, rich, and surprisingly good. I told him so, and he lit up. “I brought you here,” he said, “because the seafood is excellent — and so is the coffee.”

The Joys of Simple, Shared Coffee Moments

Huang was someone who lit up when talking about what he loved: poetry, translation, and of course, coffee. He wasn’t pretentious about it. He just really liked good coffee, and he liked sharing it with people who also appreciated it.

He once wrote a short poem about a tiny flower a friend (me) had picked during our hike. I had pulled it out of my bag and admired it absent-mindedly while waiting for food. He noticed, smiled quietly, and later turned that small moment into a poem. To me, that poem became a diamond in my memory — all because of a casual coffee chat beside the sea.

Coffee, Consistency, and a Love for Steak

Years later, I met Huang again. He greeted me with, “Ah, you’ve grown.” He hadn’t changed much — still direct, still passionate about his interests. And he was still drinking multiple cups of coffee a day.

His friend added that Huang didn’t just love coffee — he also ate steak for every meal, always from the same local Hong Kong cha chaan teng (tea restaurant), just downstairs from where he lived. No menu needed. He’d sit in his usual seat, and the owner would automatically serve him steak, no questions asked.

It struck me: here was a man who found consistency, comfort, and joy in both his daily coffee and his daily steak — and he knew exactly where to get both. I turned to my companions and said, “Let’s go to that restaurant. I want to try that coffee. If it kept Huang coming back all those years, it must be good.”

Frequently Asked Questions

Why is drinking coffee with others such a meaningful experience?

Drinking coffee with others transforms the act from routine into a shared moment. When the people around you appreciate coffee too, it creates connection, conversation, and memory — turning a simple drink into something personal and lasting.

What made Huang Canran’s coffee experience in Mui Wo special?

Though served in a plain glass beer mug, the coffee at the Mui Wo seafood restaurant had a surprisingly rich and satisfying flavor. Huang chose the spot specifically because both the seafood and the coffee were excellent, highlighting how atmosphere and company enhance the coffee experience.

Did Huang Canran have a particular coffee routine?

Yes, Huang drank several cups of coffee daily and was always enthusiastic when discussing it. He appreciated straightforward, good-quality coffee and enjoyed sharing these moments with others who felt the same way.

What other habits did Huang Canran have besides coffee?

Huang also had a daily habit of eating steak, always from the same local tea restaurant. He’d sit in the same seat, and the staff would serve his steak without him even ordering — showing his love for routine and simple pleasures.

Why does the author want to visit Huang’s favorite steak place?

The author suspects that if the tea restaurant’s coffee was good enough to keep Huang coming back for years, it must be worth trying — adding food and familiarity to the reasons coffee moments become memorable.

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