No better than a cup, enjoy the coffee

Have you ever met a person who has made you unhappy all day? For example, the driver's violation, the waiter's rudeness, the boss's violence, the employee's stupidity, and so on. Everyone will encounter, unless you are the robot Terminator, kill him, otherwise you can only eat Coptis dumb. However, it is precisely in how to deal with such embarrassing things, you can see a person's maturity. Winners will quickly turn their attention to the important things they should pay attention to, and just wave and smile to those who are unhappy.

That day, I took a taxi to Indianapolis airport. My taxi was on its normal route when suddenly a black car jumped from its parking space to the front of my taxi without warning. My taxi driver slammed on the brakes and almost rear-ended, only a few inches away.

The driver of the black car that almost got into trouble poked his head out and swore at us. On the other hand, my taxi driver smiled and waved and looked very friendly. I really didn't like it, so I said, "Why are you such a bear?" That guy almost destroyed your car and took us to the hospital. " However, the taxi driver made some sense. I call this the "garbage truck rule". "now there are a lot of people like garbage trucks, they are carrying garbage every day," he said. This rubbish is the resentment of life, the dissatisfaction of society, the frustration of work. When the rubbish accumulates to a certain extent, you have to find a place to dump it. If you put it on, it will be unloaded on you. But put it on you, don't take it personally. All you have to do is smile, wave, wish him luck and keep going your way. Then you will be happy for what you have done. "

This passage is the garbage truck rule, which makes me think: at work, at home, in society, do I often get dumped by this kind of garbage and dump it to others? From that day on, I warned myself never to dump this kind of rubbish to others again. I also began to understand this kind of garbage truck, just as the little boy in the movie "sixth sense" understood what a "real dead person" is. I learned what a "real garbage truck" is. I understand people's "garbage load" and understand their dumping. I learned from the taxi driver and didn't take it personally. I also smiled, waved, wished them good luck and continued to go their own way.

I further understand that to tolerate the "garbage truck" and consciously apply the "garbage truck rule" is to understand the "coffee and coffee cup principle". This is another life story. A group of successful college graduates were invited back to school to visit their teachers. during the conversation, the conversation turned to complaining about the stress in work and life. The teacher went into the kitchen and brought out a large pot of coffee with colorful coffee cups. These cups are ceramic, plastic, glass, ordinary and beautiful. After the teacher poured the cups into the coffee, the students were asked to pick them up. When the students had a cup of coffee, the teacher said, "you see, the beautiful and expensive cups are in your hands, and the rest are ordinary cups." This is the crux of the problem: people usually want the best. You need coffee instead of coffee cups, but you deliberately choose better cups and stare at the cups in other people's hands. " By the same token, if life is coffee, then work, money and status are cups-these are the tools for "life". The cup is different, but the quality of "life" in the cup remains the same. People, often pay attention to the cup and neglect to appreciate the things in the cup.

Yes, it is no higher than the cup, it should be mellow in the cup. This is the principle of life.