The unique common sense of coffee

No matter how you look at the woman in the mirror, you can see that she has a kind of erotic beauty. That kind of beauty is silent after knowing the secret, relieved and presumptuous after being broken, and the joy and panic of a child playing in the quagmire. In the eyes of men, this kind of beauty of oriental women still has a shy escape, while in the eyes of girls, it is a kind of Luotuo amorous feelings with an unclean feeling.

This is sex, which brings an unconcealed change in your face at the moment.

One day, a group of girls who lived in a dorm room in the university had a party. After the lights were turned off together in the past, they often talked about their future, and they were often afraid that their ambitions would not be brought into full play in the future. Aged woman was made first, hanging out a family's clothes and socks one by one with malnourished hair. Now almost all of them are married and have a rare party. after dinner, they begin to chat, nothing more than family, men, work and children. It seems that previous worries are not necessary, and time has made girls mature and fragrant, like bananas that have been kept for a few days.

At this time, one of them played with his coffee cup and began to give psychological tests to his old classmates. "if you walked into an empty house when you were thirsty, hungry and cold," she said, "how would you feel about coffee when you saw a cup of hot coffee on the table in the living room?"

The first man said, "Coffee is so bitter. You'd better have something else to drink."

The second person said: "nonsense, there is coffee at this time, there is no more comfortable."

The third person said: "I like the smell of coffee, very romantic, but do not really want to drink, drink a little reluctantly."

The fourth man said, "you need two drinks a day. Only after drinking can you have vitality."

Most of the remaining people agree with the third view that they are both fond of and afraid of coffee and are not so used to it.

The man who was playing with half a cup of coffee smiled and said, "Coffee represents your view of your sex life in this test."

Raise the table and laugh and examine yourself. It turns out that most people like the romance of sensibility, but they can't really enjoy its essence.

When you become an adult woman, sex is a secret but necessary part of your life, and the girl era is too shy to talk about sex, and the distant pure attitude towards sex has gone with your first experience. It's sex that makes you really feel like an adult. When she was a girl, she secretly envied her mother's complete breasts and gentle amorous feelings, worried about her long, thin body and flat figure that looked stagnant, and broke her hair quietly in front of the mirror and sandwiched her father's cigarette. I was actually looking forward to being sexy and rich in experience. At that time, sex, in the eyes of girls, was really evil and romantic, and it happened to be something absolutely terrible but absolutely wanted. Sometimes it is the same as the fear and yearning for adulthood.

Almost all girls have such a dream in adolescence: there is a man who makes out with him, his face can not see clearly, but he is so familiar. And in the dream, my mood is so real desire and fear. It's just that few people talk about their dark, light-colored dreams, which is a secret of adolescence. It wasn't until you read a book on psychology and Freud that you suddenly realized that horses and snakes in your dreams had something to do with sex. Close the book, recall their own feelings, those ashamed and anxious, always secretly buried in the deep heart.

This is the long process of girls getting closer to sex.

A Shanghai girl who grew up in New York once said, "what is the difference between us and white people?" It is that they have understood how children are made long before we do. "

No girl in the East will ever sit down face to face and tell her parents what happened behind the closed door of the bedroom, how it happened, and how she will feel as a woman.

Parents naturally do not say, no book will actually tell you that the physiology teacher hesitates, and even the friends in the boudoir don't talk about sex.

Girls in the East think it is mysterious, but it is also very dirty. You can quickly adapt and like kissing, but it's not so easy to adapt and enjoy sex.

Sex will be a problem for you, you can't get around it, but you can't control it. Just having a sexual connection, you often worry about your man's gain and loss, entanglement for no reason, resentment and attachment, in fact, it's all because you can't adapt to the new thing that comes into your life.

Many women retain the unclean feeling about their sex life all their lives. They are often not cold-tempered, they are often charming, but the evaluation in their hearts is: "dirty and interesting." Maybe this evaluation is correct.

In the days of girls, the whole person was simple and clean. That kind of simplicity is that you know clearly what is good and what is bad, what is white and what is black. It is rare for you to come to ambiguous conclusions about one thing, or there is nothing really ambiguous in your range. When a person is a child, things are usually clean.

The process of growing up in life, from a certain point of view, is the process of discovering, experiencing and identifying with two possible things. Gradually, your life also begins to become "dirty and interesting".

After many years, when you occasionally don't want to get dressed in the bathroom because you like the golden red sky at the end of summer and the cool evening breeze, you often go to the mirror to look at yourself. This is what every woman does. They like to look at themselves. You, too.

If you think of your lover and the close relationship between you, you will look at yourself with his eyes. And if you think about your past, you will look at yourself with the eyes of a hazy girl.

No matter how you look at the woman in the mirror, you can see that she has a kind of erotic beauty. That kind of beauty is silent after knowing the secret, relieved and presumptuous after being broken, and the joy and panic of a child playing in the quagmire. In the eyes of men, this kind of beauty of oriental women still has a shy escape, while in the eyes of girls, it is a kind of Luotuo amorous feelings with an unclean feeling.

This is sex, which brings an unconcealed change in your face at the moment. People who have been through the past can often see from your face whether you have learned about sex in your eyes.

You've become a spring-faced woman. This kind of change, perhaps others do not care, but know is yourself, you will find, will be surprised, and will be a little ashamed, because you think of your maturity, those who recall the dark and beautiful, as if riding on a horse agitation.

You will be like this for the rest of your life. It is that you will no longer touch sex for a long time, that is, you may not like sex as much as the first person who said that coffee is too bitter, which can no longer bring you back to the virgin days of purity.

When it comes to sex, you can best see the nature of life: when you get something, you lose something.

If you get the love of the wind and the moon, you will lose your pure beauty.

You get the joy you never had, and you lose the serenity that will never come again.

You become amorous, and you become unclean at the same time.

You want the same, but you always get two, maybe you don't want the other.

Married women, sometimes together, will slowly move the topic to their own sex life, perhaps not so direct, not so accustomed, smiling shallowly on their faces, and laughing when they are embarrassed. You are bound to encounter occasions in your life where you hold hands and there seems to be sweat in your palms because of excitement and strange feelings that can't be erased.

In fact, most women are not so sure. Just like the third woman who talks about coffee, mature women are contradictory about sex, but God knows why?